For those who have the problem (that exists for a ong time now), that icon packager does not change all icons or live folders do not have the correct icon.
After days of experimenting with registry and gpedit and deleteing the iconcache i found a very simple solution:
Boot in safe mode, make your changes with iconpackager and reboot.
But there is still one question:
Why is stardock not capable to solve this problem by making changes in the proram code?
And that's all i can say about this.... 