The graphics in GalCiv3 don't seem to be all that demanding to me. They're not exactly high def. I'd think getting more memory would be the key to a faster game here.
I started out with 8GB and I also play on a laptop that has 4GB and integrated graphics. The laptop is very slow, but handles the game.
I upgraded my desktop in steps from 8 to 16 and finally 32GB. I saw a vast increase in perfomance with 16GB, including no more crashes to desktop or game freezing. 32GB made no noticeable difference.
The desktop has a fairly low end card (GTX 750, 2GB) and handles it well.