Sorry pacov, I didn't see your comment last night about me not being flexible or having map awareness, so I'll address it here.
To recap the game state:
I had been invaded 3 times before the 3 minute mark. I had gotten no help initially from Boaz since he as waiting for an extra pot instead of helping or leashing for me. I came out ahead of Lee because I was better than him, but was behind the level curve due to no leash and having to constantly fight. On the other hand, I had mid way ahead since he got a kill on Lee and I was able to gank for him.
Shortly after this happened, you started complaining about me not giving you enough attention bot since you were getting crushed. I knew this, but I was behind in levels (although ahead of their Lee). Your lane was way behind and you did a short disconnect and had some backs bot.
At that point, I could have either:
1) Ran all the way across the map to temporarily cover a lane. I would have lost a ton of xp and gold, but kept up your tower for another few waves. But the tower would have soon been lost since there was no way you could have held bot tower.
2) Let them take bot, but take multiple buffs myself (including one of Lee's, which I knew was free since I knew where he was), then gank mid.
I chose option 2 since it benefitted the team in every way. Every competent jungler above Gold V or so would do the same. The general idea is to get myself and mid ahead and put their mid and jungler further behind. We lost a tower we were going to lose anyway. They now have to now play a very long bot lane when we have a Pantheon and fed Katarina. Its not a terrible situation if people don't tilt.
With regards to why I wasn't ganking much for you earlier: as I said, I was getting constantly invaded and I was behind in levels. You don't gank when you are behind in levels and the lane you are ganking into is also substantially behind. Especially when Peterdumptruck is in that lane. Its a silly thing to do. You have the flexibility to get somebody else ahead and deal with it when you are better able to.
I don't appreciate being harassed for 15 minutes straight by you for making a relatively straight forward decision.