Banned for no, nobody is really winning. Its just endless arguing.
Do you want to back off anyway? Ha, I didnt think so 
Just like in the movie "Pirates of the Caribbean: Curse of the Black Pearl", where in the end Jack Sparrow was fighting the bad guy (dont remember his name), and they were both cursed, so none of them would die.
The bad guy said to Jack: "We cant kill each other, so what is the point of all this?" and Jack replied: "Well, you can surrender
".
That would be all.