I bought the game just a couple of weeks ago and have been playing it solidly since, it`s great fun.
So far I have played random maps of the largest kind since I like the space and the lenght of the games, and I almost always lose somehow, usuallly by falling behind in the techs. I play at challenging with 7-9 opponents.
In my last game I was playing Yor and got a good start with a 30% tech lead and about 80k money in reserve when the Terrans decided noone would miss my evil empire and attacked. They were larger than me so I rushed together a defense of destroyers, which was how far I had been able to reseach. Since I had seen railguns on some Terran ships I had researched armor, and used the best particle beams to attack.
My teams of 2 destroyers killed the first waves easily, since the Terran ships didnt have shields and they were all firing railguns at my kadmium armor. I was sure that I would get a small break before he came back with modified ships to crush me, but he just kept zerging with the same inappropriate ships for hours, blocking my research and production alot because of the galactic wartax.
At the end of the game (which the Torians won with Ascension) I had lost 34 ships (3 of them destroyers) and destroyed 387 ships, most if not all of these in the defensive operation against the Terrans. My longest surviving destroyer was at level 34 by then and had 123 hp.
You might argue that since the tax and upkeep choked my small economy this Red Army infantry-charge approach worked, but I cant understand why the AI didnt change the Terran gear when it was obvious that he couldnt get in with railguns. If he had returned with some missiles and shields I would have been dead easily.
In addition to this I was treated like a banana republic in the diplomacy screen, since I had only about half the military strength of the Torians and Terrans. However, since I was winning every single fight I was obviously strong enough to be a serious threat, but still they kept blackmailing me as if I was a minor civ, and I could not negotiate peace in any way.
It was a very annoying game....
I haven`t tried the harder settings yet, is there any chance that this sort of thing can be avoided at the highest settings?