lets try this the right way.
hi and thanks for the welcome. (just got a bit frustrated with setting the changes)
I bought the Skin called Wraith (awesome skin)
I bought the app called Impulse (full package) the 69.99$ one.. came with window blinds and all the other good stuff.
I installed windowblinds and tried to apply the skin but it only changed the colors and that was it. I went back to wincustomize and did some searching, found the links to download the background and other things that i might want. maybe i am doing something wrong.. or not doing something all together... not sure.
I also bought (double bought) object dock, (came with impulse and (bought it seperate (but, my bad for not looking.))
anyway... thanks for the info and the welcome.